tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3657113126885762467.post7372239305157408164..comments2021-04-21T09:03:44.383-04:00Comments on Little Life of Mine: I need to VENTAndreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10723360255881297744noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3657113126885762467.post-44548961339135971092011-06-01T10:24:11.718-04:002011-06-01T10:24:11.718-04:00I haven't been in this situation, but your pos...I haven't been in this situation, but your post reminds me of some other families I've met through people close to me... What I'd suggest is, if you go to get your stuff, take someone supportive who is not in the family and tell them all this stuff beforehand. If they start any crap like "that's mine!" you'll have someone there to help calmly assert the truth, and hopefully having someone else there will mean they're less willing to start stuff... hopefully. I think if you don't get your things, then it'll eat away at you for ages (seen this in people close to me too), so I would advise trying to get it, as calmly as possible. And if things are written in the will, then you'll have some sort of legal recourse about them but I hope it doesn't come to that. Calm assertiveness, I think that's the way to go. And after all this, I personally would cut them off (my opinion based only on this post, of course!). If someone is making you feel that bad, you're better off without them. *hugs* hope things get sorted out soonYarndancerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05599394739413977625noreply@blogger.com